To say that you don’t get wisdom from reading great books or blogs, spending time with an amazing mentor, attending conferences with the best motivational speakers, going to university or night school, observing those who are the leaders in your field is like saying that you don’t get a balanced, nutritious, tasty meal by going shopping. Of course you do!
There is, however, one extra ingredient you need to add. Something that is equally essential whether you are preparing a meal or planning to be wise.
That ingredient? HEAT!
To turn those raw vegetables into something delicious, you need to cook them using some form of heat.
In the same way – situations in life will provide you with the testing ground in which to use the information and knowledge you have gained from study. In other words – when the world turns on the heat, and you apply your learning successfully – you gain wisdom!
So go out into the world and experience things, fall over and scrape your knees, take risks, make mistakes and live life to the full. In this way you will gain a solid grounding in what it means to be wise. The more you fall off that horse, dust yourself down and get back into that saddle, the wiser you will become.
So what are you waiting for – get out there and fall on your face, my friend. A better life awaits you!
(Partly adapted from the words of Better Life Coaching Blog)
Such a lovely concept on wisdom.
I could never have thought of it! Heat!
But I agree with you on living life to the fullest. the more we fall, the more we will become wise!
A lovely share, indeed!
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Thank you, my friend. May you be ever wiser as the cycle turns. 🙂
Kindness – Robert.
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Refined by fire, just like gold!!
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Yes – that’s another wonderful way to express it, Karen. 🙂
How’s today falling for you, as the road rises to meet you?
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Today was lovely! I sold my first painting, scored a few points against a semi pro tennis player, visited a friends sister in an assisted living center and made her laugh so loudly we were told we could be heard all the way at the other end of the hallway 😊 I count today as a great success!
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How lovely! Well done, Karen – you must be buzzing! 😀 I love it when days like that come along. You must immortalise it with a poem (or two).
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I just might have to do that! Stay tuned.
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Motivational…. But, I’d rather stay dumb and introverted
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Ha – you’re anything but dumb! And as for introverted … pffffffft!
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Ummm…. No, I think I’m dumb (maybe just happy) . And what makes you think I’m extroverted?
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Perhaps you just have to be easy in someone’s company before you come out of yourself. 🙂
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Yes. That maybe…. But it takes time…. And sometimes I get vibes
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Yeah – like a gaydar – that sort of thing, yes? 🙂
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Um…. Maybe. Some kind of sixth sense telling that she is stupid and he is an as*****
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One sometimes has to go a little deeper when it comes to people. Often when they appear cruel and crude on the surface, they are actually sensitive and kind (but scared) on the inside.
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That’s true…. But I am too scared to take chances
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But hey – you took a chance on me, and look how … interesting that turned out to be. 🙂
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You are rapping. Nice!
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Hmm – kinda,
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So Eminem drops by at the pub and teaches you how to rap. Nice! Doesn’t Steve object?
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Sometimes. But only when he’s sober. 🙂
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Nice pub you have got there
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It is – apart from Mad Mick. Tell you what – you could easily get him to bop Steve on the nose! 🙂
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Why don’t you do it? I don’t know Mick
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Because I’m a pacifist, alight!! *puts on angry face for effect then realises it isn’t the right kind of face for pacifism and blushes*
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See a picture of Gandhi and try to copy it. May work…. Let me know if it does
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okay
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Pppppp
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I didn’t take a chance on you.
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okay
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It was your writing that made me comment on your blog. And now, here we are!
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Did I comment on your blog first or did you comment on mine?
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Must be me. On Noses and Lunch most probably
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Good memory. That was the first of your 610 comments (so far) on my blog. 2017/06/29 at 4:16 pm. 🙂
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610? Seriously. I should comment less…
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Why?
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610 is a huge number, that’s why
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Now you’re cookin’! Great analogy, Robert. I was thinking along those lines just yesterday!
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As you were cooking? Or falling off a horse! 🙂
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Neither. 😉
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🙂 What were you doing then. When you were thinking on these lines?
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Are you sure you wanna know? Haha – just kidding. I was scribbling in my notebook about raw hearts being slow-cooked throughout the years … sound familiar? 😉
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Give me a clue.
Sorry – feeling dense.
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Oh no, Robert is clueless (for once). 😉
Instead of hinting, I’ll just give it to you straight: my most recent blog post, Fine Dining.
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Oh, that! Yes I know about that. Your cross posting got me confuddled. I thought …
Anyways, yes – got it. 🙂
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Confuddled – nice! I’m a big fan of the words you coin. Can I have your autograph? *bursting with excitement*
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You’re being a trifle too romdonkulous for your own good!
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Found out that you didn’t coin ‘confuddled’ after all. Oopsie! 😉
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Not really, no. I have some words that my mum told me when I was a toddler that I still use. Babababababa is a good example! 😀
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Awww …
Stuttering? 😉
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GagagagaGoogoo. Baby talk. 🙂
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I don’t care if I don’t become wise, I want to live like this for the sheer joy of doing so ❤
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Makes sense to me. I suspect it might be like humility – you don’t get it if you exalt in your ability to be it. But once you relax into it … ah, there you are! 🙂
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But I don’t cook all raw vegetables 😛
seriously, great advice Robert.
XxX
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Some can be eaten raw – good point. But generally – cooked ice-cream tastes better than raw ice-cream, yes? 😀
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I don’t know, I think I never had raw ice-cream
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I (think I) was joking. Actually, I have no idea whether the ingredients are cooked before being frozen. Must find out.
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As far as I know, Ice-CREAM is heated first.
And sorry, if I ruined your joke…wasn’t my intention. Oops.
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Eek! *wonders what hot ice-cream tastes like*
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Like hot milk with a flavour?
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Hmm, yeah – I guess. 🙂
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This is the best article you have ever written. Wow. You must have been at the top of your meditation that day.
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It’s not often I get told that. Thanks, Phil.
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This is a merit not known to many, and I guess that is why there are many who remain stuck in the same place simply because lack the wisdom to see the wisdom in others. That is jubilating in other people’s merits just improves the quality of your own meditation.
I learnt this during my Bodhisattva journey.
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It seems incongruent with enlightenment to make such a blanket judgement (‘many … lack the wisdom to see the wisdom in others’). Gives me a vision of love wearing boxing gloves.
I guess that partly explains why I’m ‘stuck in the same place’. 🙂 (But not, paradoxically, why you’re not.)
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That is the nature of nirvana itself, nothing is supposed to remain congruent long enough.
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Woow I like this piece
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You made me read it again. Yeah – I think I like it too. 🙂
Is it okay to like my own writing?
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Sorry my comment is actually the reply
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Hahahaha – now I understand!! 😀
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😀😀
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Yh….definitely
Just that when you like it yourself it means no one’s harsh words about it can change your mind
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“Yh – sometimes used by Internet creepers in IRC channels meaning ‘you horny?'” 😀
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😃😃…. I never knew that
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Like they say – something new every day. Actually, I didn’t know that either. 🙂
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