God’s love is true altruistic love. All the other loves will eat you up. They won’t wait for you to find your happiness, they’ll just search for their own and when they find it, they’ll take it. And if that means picking little pieces of your heart from their teeth as they push back their chair from the table, satisfied at the meal they made of you, then so be it. On the other hand, God wants absolutely nothing from you but that you be happy and complete in the ocean of bliss that is his endless love. But hey – it’s your choice.